FH Summary: The blog post advocates for adopting the 85% rule in child development, emphasizing effort over perfection to promote healthier and more balanced growth. It presents evidence that striving for achievable goals rather than perfection reduces stress and increases engagement and resilience in children. By focusing on sustainable effort and realistic achievements, the 85% rule helps children develop essential life skills and fosters a growth mindset, making it a powerful tool in effective parenting and educational strategies.
In a society that often prioritizes high achievements and absolute perfection, an alternative approach is gaining recognition for its effectiveness, especially in child development. The philosophy at First Habits, a leader in child behavior and development resources, centers on a seemingly unconventional wisdom: focusing on 85% effort rather than striving for the elusive 100% can oftentimes lead to better outcomes, but also promotes sustainability in personal growth and encourages a healthier, more balanced lifestyle for our children.
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